You agreed on the rule. So why is it only you enforcing it?

Same Page Parenting:

creating expectations that actually hold

Saturday, September 26 · 9:00–10:00 AM ET · Online via Zoom · Free

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How come nobody did what we agreed upon?

You weren't the only one in the conversation when this was decided. Everyone seemed to move forward on the same page. But you walked away with different agreements — one of you heard a rule, the other heard a guideline, and neither of you ever said which. You fell into the common sense trap.

It isn't that you want different things for your kids and each other. Expectation-setting is a skill, and nobody is born knowing it. So most people try to run their life on "common sense," not realizing that what you sensed wasn't common to anyone else.

This is for you if…

  • You've had the same argument about the same rule more times than you can count.

  • You're the one enforcing it, every time.

  • You're co-parenting across two houses and the rules don't travel.

  • You're blending two families with two sets of assumptions.

This applies anywhere you need to set an expectation, with your kids or with the adults in your life.

Join me in this free 60-minute session, as I walk you through the 7 marks of an expectation that actually holds:

01
CONSCIOUS

You can't agree on a rule you never noticed you had.

02
Realistic

If it only works on a good day, it isn't a rule.

03
spoken

The rule in your head isn't a rule.

04
Specific

“Clean your room" means six different things.

05
Mutually agreed

Silence isn't agreement.

06
written down

Memory is not a neutral witness.

07
followed-up

The step everyone skips, and the reason the rest collapses.

You'll leave with the checklist and one real expectation in your home rebuilt from the ground up.

So the next time it comes up, you're standing on the same side of it.

Meet your Host

Coach & Pastoral Counselor · Founder, Connections CPC
Husband and homeschool dad of four.

I've spent more than 15 years in church ministry and 20 years running my own businesses, and I've watched the same thing go wrong in living rooms and in boardrooms: two people walk away from a conversation certain they agreed, and only one of them acts on it.

I'm an ordained minister with a psychology degree from Georgia Tech and a Master's focused on counseling and pastoral care. I've walked with hundreds of parents through the season you're in — and I'm still in it myself.

Mike St. Denis

Saturday, September 26 · 9:00–10:00 AM ET · Online via Zoom · Free

  • "Since our kids were little, my wife and I faced the same problems every day. The support we got finally let us break the cycle. We just needed help making a plan and believing things could get better."

    — Matthew B.

  • "I always told myself the reason my kids were struggling was I just wasn't doing enough. I never realized my needs weren't getting met either — and that they matter if I'm going to show up and care for my kids."

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